Having children is one of the biggest decision one has to make, because bringing a human into this world is quite the responsibility.
We know for a fact that it’s not for everyone, and now more than ever people are opting out of childbearing.
However, wanting kids is still the norm, and it’s very important for people who choose not to have kids to be in agreement with their partners on this issue. It’s crucial for couples to be on the same page when it comes to wanting or not wanting kids, because this decision might play a major role in how their lives will turn out.
If you want kids, but your partner doesn’t, there’s going to come a time when that becomes a problem, and vice versa, of course.
A woman recently decided to take it to Reddit’s AITA subreddit about a problem she has with her partner. It seems that she’s well aware of the importance of communicating with your partner about this topic, and she says that she told her fiance that she didn’t want kids from day one. He eventually agreed, and everything was perfect until he changed his mind about the topic.
So, he knew from the very beginning that she doesn’t want to have kids, but he changed his mind a couple of months before their wedding. He even suggested she goes to therapy about her “child-hating problem”, and she refused to do it.
What do you think about this? Reddit users seem to agree that she is not in the wrong here, and the actual a-hole here is her fiance who knew her desires from the very beginning.