Every person in this world feels jealousy about something, and we can’t really blame ourselves for that.
However, what we can do is take responsibility for how we deal with our jealousy, and we should never ever use that jealousy as a reason to try and control people. This is especially important to remember when you’re in a romantic relationship, because jealously is likely to come at some point, and it’s how you deal with it can be crucial for the longevity of the relationship.
Reddit user u/redditboisonly recently ran into a moral dilemma when he got into an argument with his own brother, and it includes his brother’s plan to control his future wife. The thing is that his brother told him that he will not allow his wife to text anyone of the opposite gender once he got married.
The OP told him that she would be pretty upset if he limits her communication like that, so now he wanted fellow Redditors to share their opinions if he is the A-hole for saying that.
Almost everyone on Reddit agreed that OP’s brother was in the wrong here, and they noted that creating strict rules for your partner to oblige is a red flag for any relationship: