“Shallow” Woman No Longer Attracted To Her BF After He Revealed His Childhood Nightmares

“Shallow” Woman No Longer Attracted To Her BF After He Revealed His Childhood Nightmares

Any doctor will tell you that young children are extremely vulnerable to maltreatment, and the terrible experiences from their youth often haunt them for the rest of their lives.
@calinyloo00 is a 20-year-old Reddit user who recently learned about the childhood nightmares her boyfriend had, and she didn’t know how to react. He confessed to her that his older stepbrother had taken advantage of him multiple times when he was 11 years old. However, she said that she needed some time to digest that information, and just left his apartment.

She was looking for approval on Reddit and asked the other users if she was the a-hole for distancing herself from her boyfriend after he revealed his secret to her, and, to her surprise, she got a unanimous YES.

This is what the 20-year-old woman posted:

And this is how people responded to it:

 
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If I was into men I’d beg for his address, we have that major thing in common. I was sexually molested and raped as a child, and and I know the hell he has gone through. Sweetie, you do not deserve this man. He has literally gone through the valley of the shadow of death and come out the other side. That’s a strong person, the kind I’d like to have by my side. He certainly deserves better than you. Take your sorry-***ed type “me” personality and go back to the playground, you are too small a person to be playing with the adults. This man has been tested in the flame, he is a survivor. If you can’t support him in those late night hours when the stress cracks are strongest you are of no use to him. I hope and pray he finds the woman he needs to stand with him.

“Some of my best friends have… ” That comment comes right out of the racist 60s. The guy, who is a survivor, obviously needs support. Dumping this woman would be in his best interests.

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