Therapist Shares Why ‘Men Don’t Actually Like Women’ In Eye-Opening Video

Therapist Shares Why ‘Men Don’t Actually Like Women’ In Eye-Opening Video

KC Davis is a licensed professional therapist who goes by the handle @domesticblisters on TikTok, and she recently shared a video in which she highlighted the most eye-opening thing she learned about men; ‘Men don’t actually like women’.

According to Davis, she learned this theory in college from her human sexuality class professor. He spoke how society teaches boys to ‘become men’, but it doesn’t tell them how to be men – it just teaches them how not to be women.

@domesticblisters

Most men don’t like women. #patriarchy #toxicmasculinity #feminism #misogynistic

♬ original sound – Kc Davis

She shared a few examples of how this plays out in real life, and in boys’ upbringing.

For example, boys get told: Don’t cry. Be a man.

Or: Don’t be weak. Be a man.

Or: Don’t be sensitive. Be a man.

You recognize the pattern here? All of the things that are ‘wrong’ are things that are seen as feminine, and it’s a shame for a boy to do feminine things.

“And the tool we use to do that kind of socializing to steer them away from feminine things is, shame,” – she continued.

@domesticblisters

Reply to @lady14bug ding ding ding. #patriarchy #misogynistic #phobia

♬ original sound – Kc Davis

She continued that men are taught that the most ‘shameful’ thing they can do is be like a woman.

@domesticblisters

Reply to @lady14bug ding ding ding. ##patriarchy ##misogynistic ##phobia

♬ original sound – Kc Davis

What do you think about this analogy? Do you agree with her? Feel free to express your thoughts in the comments.

Source: Upworthy

 
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Germaine Greer made this observation in her first book way back in the 70s. True then and true now!

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