This one is for the girl that feels like everyone’s second choice, even though that is definitely not true.
She feels like she’s one of the people’s many options, and yet she still decides to stick around and play the game. However, she knows that she’s better than being someone’s “backup”, and no one deserves to be the second choice.
She cares too much about the people around her to the point she can’t tell them she’s hurt by their actions, and she’d rather allow her own feelings to get hurt than to hurt someone else’s.
What she needs to realize, though, is that people can see it. If she lives her life by not giving credit to herself, or treating herself like she’s a top priority, no one else will. Once she begins to respect herself, others will immediately start noticing it.
She knows that she loves with her entire heart, but her heart is very, very stubborn. She’s so caught up in her head that she often jumps to conclusions, and they’re almost never good ones. She overthinks every single thing that happens in her day, and it’s extremely exhausting.
What she actually needs to do is relax, take a deep breath, and realize that no matter what it was that made her become like this, it’s absolutely Okay. All she needs to do is remind herself that she deserves to be treated equally in every relationship, be it with her family, friends, or a romantic relationship. Even though it may be hard and may feel scary at first, she needs to put herself in front sometimes.
“Those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind.”